10 Dating Tips From 'Bennymcnugget'
Benny McNugget’s vlogs give an insight into the crazy, everyday antics of a young kiwi lad.
So if you haven't already, we'd suggest taking a look at his YouTube channel.
Check out some of Benny's dating tips below.
1. Most importantly BE YOURSELF.
Obviously everyone knows this. But there are still some people that try to be someone their not just to get a person to like them more. But soon that will wear off and your true colors will come through and then just maybe your relationship will come crashing down.
2. Don't try too hard.
Again this is very obvious. But in early stages of relationships you want to be chill and comfortable. Never chase anyone. A person who appreciate you will talk with you. Just remember you are awesome, and he/she will see that. Don't try too hard to search for love. In the end love will find you, sometimes in the most unexpected ways.
3. Don't force things.
The one thing I have learned from chasing girls and dating is that you should NEVER force things. Things HAVE to happen naturally. When you are talking you want the conversations to flow naturally. The worst things is when you are sitting there thinking about things to say to each other. It helps if you have things in common. You will never have to force anything that's truly meant to be.
4. Keep things interesting.
If you just met someone and want to do somethings fun and interesting try playing a game. I like to play 2 truths 1 lie. Pretty self-explanatory. You say 2 truth and 1 lie and the other person has to guess it. It's good way to get to know someone if you are on a first date or in those early stages. And if you are in a relationship currently. Then do something adventuress. Go find a cliff and get a bottle of whatever you like to drink and sit there and watch the sun go down. I don't know I see that on Instagram a lot and figured it must be a pretty fun and spontaneous thing to do.
5. Don't be jealous of your partners friends.
Jealousy can ruin relationships and it's such an unattractive thing. Jealousy shows that you are insecure about your relationship and that someone else out there can be better than you. remember your partner is with YOU, not anyone else. Be strong. If you are treating your partner with love and respect then you have nothing to be worried about.
6. Treat your spouse like a king/queen
If you want a relationship to last, treat your partner like he/she is your everything. You are with this person for a reason. Show them how much they really mean to you. Plus it's always a nice feeling when you see your partner smile and hug you from something you did for them. flowers and chocolate are simple and effective.
7. Buy he/she food ;)
I don't know about you but if my girlfriend brought me food I would wife her up straight away. Food is the key to anyone’s heart. Nothing like a Midnight maccas run to make someone happy. ;)
8. Be open minded.
Just because you don't want to or you don't like it doesn't mean the world evolves around you. Everyone is different and everyone has different activities that make them happy. If your partner wants to do something you have never done before. DO IT. It will make your partner happy. And maybe your partner does things they don't want to do but they do it anyway just to make you happy. You have to be open about trying new things and accepting new things.
9. Communication is key to a relationship.
If you are not happy about something, speak up. The worst thing you can do is bottle it up and keep it in you. Because one day it's all going to come out and things will not be good. Talk about it with your partner. RESOLVE things. It'll make life 10000x easier. When two people really care about each other, they will always find a way to make it work.
10. Build a mental bond rather than a physical bond.
Being attracted to someone’s looks over their personality is the worst thing for a relationship. No matter how 'goals' they're. You want someone who is your best friend. Someone you can go through thick and thin with and come out the other end strong and ready to conquer whatever life throws at you. Beautiful looks will last a few decades. But a beautiful personality will last lifetime. That's what a relationship is all about.