Surprise — Frances Bean Cobain is now a married woman!

Courtney Love and Kurt Cobain’s daughter has reportedly wed her beau of five years, Isaiah Silva, who’s the frontman of L.A. rock band The Eeries. According to E! News, the couple tied the knot in a small and intimate ceremony that only had 13 to 15 guests present.

In fact, it was SO intimate that the bride’s rocker mom reportedly wasn’t in attendance — because she apparently wasn’t invited. The pair have had a publicly rocky relationship over the years, but in August, Love posted a cute message to her daughter on Instagram, wishing her a happy 23rd birthday.

“My greatest love and our precious Bean #missyou #memories,” Love wrote, sharing a throwback pic of them with Kurt, who committed suicide when Frances was just two years old.

Frances later responded to her mom on Twitter with a funny and sweet message of her own.

However, it appears there are no hard feelings — Love posted a photo on Instagram Saturday afternoon of her with actor James Norley, writing, “If you think I’m sorry for being a no-show at any important events this week, think again. I was with @jamesnorley.”

- Madeline Roth